It’s a question that many of us struggle with in our relationships, so if you’re going through it, you’re not alone: How do you know how he really feels?
Even if things are going great between you and your man, you might have this question in the back of your mind, eating away at you when you should be busy enjoying yourself. Luckily, there’s tons of signs to look out for when you’re trying to figure out how he feels — you just have to know where to look.
Below are 25 things to look out for in your relationship, especially if you’re wondering what his real intentions are. Not every sign will apply to every relationship, but there are plenty of helpful things to look for if you’re unsure.
#1. Making Plans
If he makes a lot of plans with you, long-term or otherwise, he’s committed.
#2. Respects You
He respects you and makes you and your wishes his priority. He does not behave oppressively and treats you as his equal.
#3. Keeps Watch
He’s not clingy, but he’s always checking on you to see how you’re doing.
#4. Doesn’t Brag
He indulges you whims and gives you presents that you will definitely like.
He does not lie and he is honest with you, even the truth is bitter.
When someone loves somebody, he tries his best to not put themselves before their partners.
#7. Fighting Clean
If he “fights” or argues rationally then he might be a keeper/
#8. Interested In You
If your partner loves you, he will take interest in your routine and work.
Partners who are in love with you are protective and don’t want harm coming your way.
#10. You Are Always in Their Focus
If your partner loves you, and respects you at the same time – he will not find attention elsewhere because he knows it will disrespect you.
#11. They Might Agree with You but Not When You Are Wrong
It’s great if a guy agrees with you a lot, but just make sure it’s not too much: If he’s a yes-man, he might not actually be sincere.
Men who are confident in their relationships have no problem reassuring their ladies that they are.
#13. Considers Your Plans.
No matter how much an event means to him, he will always ask you first about it, and never assume you’re free.
#14. He Gets (A Little Bit) Jealous
He’ll do his best to hide it, but if you’re talking to other guys, you’ll notice him noticing.
#15. He Invests In You
They invest in you, not only monetarily, but in your personality as well. They take time out for you and share their life and great with you. Taking time out for you from a fast-paced life really shows their intentions are sincere.
#16. Always True To Himself
They’re the same even when you’re not around. Their behavior never changes which shows that they’re the same person and is entirely sincere.
#17. Avoids Using the Phone Around You
They avoid using the phone when you’re around because they don’t want their attention to be divided when they’re around you.
#18. Matches Interests
They make it a point to match their interests with you so you can both spend more time together and share experiences more often.
19. Genuine Smiles
If he smiles whenever he looks at you, this surely means you’re lighting his world up. And that means he’ll never want to leave you.
#20. Tries to impress you
When they care about what you think, they will try to impress you and that’s extremely important in a relationship.
#21. Good Memory
They have a good memory when comes to things you say because they’re always listening to you carefully. It is the greatest form of respect anybody can give you.
#22. Divides Work Equally
The right kind of guy won’t assume you’ll always make him dinner: He’ll love it when you do, and he’ll do it for you too.
#23.The “We” Word
He says “we” when something concerns you both.
#24. Pet Names
He uses “pet” names to please you.
#25. He Just Says It
And finally, and perhaps more importantly: If a guy loves you, then he’ll have no problem just coming out and saying it.